WALLACE — Duplin Christian Outreach Ministries (DCOM) has a new executive director — Tomme Maier. She succeeds Jeralene Merritt, who retired after serving DCOM for 18 years, including four years as director.
“Stepping into my new role as the executive director for Duplin Christian Outreach Ministries is a huge honor and I am humbled how God is working in my life as well as those around me,” Maier told Duplin Journal.
Maier brings a profound sense of humility, faith, and purpose to her position. Her vision for DCOM highlights the importance of community, connection and conversation — essential elements for building meaningful and transformative relationships both within the ministry and in the broader community.
“We are here to serve our neighbors in need,” said Maier. “It is vitally important that we engage others to join our mission promoting long-lasting and impactful relationships.”
With a strong focus on service, Maier envisions DCOM as a vessel of hope that invites others to participate in God’s work through partnerships and a shared commitment to serving the people of Duplin. Her immediate goals include expanding volunteer involvement, supporting partner pantries, increasing funding for daily ministries, and church engagement.
“We have a wonderful testimony to share of God’s faithfulness to DCOM and the county we serve,” said Maier. “We will soon be celebrating 20 successful years of ministry to Duplin County residents (Open House is planned for Aug. 3).”
With a background in social services, education, and experience at the American Red Cross, the Duplin County native has long been in the trenches with individuals facing crisis.
“Many of our residents come to us vulnerable, broken and desperate for help. They desire a safe and welcoming place to find solutions to everyday problems,” Maier explained.
Having served vulnerable populations through case management and crisis intervention, she brings problem-solving and a trauma-informed perspective to her new role.
She recognizes that many individuals who turn to DCOM are in distress, not just seeking assistance but also healing. Her aim is to provide practical support, offering immediate help alongside long-term hope.
“We are here to wrap God’s love, hope and faith around those we serve and we are here to encourage, equip and enable our clients to overcome the crisis they find themselves in,” Maier said.
Her leadership is shaped by her personal experiences with hardship and healing, giving her the ability to connect with those in crisis.
“My return to Duplin County was a difficult situation. My family experienced a horrific trauma,” Maier told Duplin Journal. “Within a three-month period, I was facing separation, loss of my career and home, and sitting in Lacks Cancer Treatment Center in Grand Rapids, Michigan. After my surgery, it was decided that my youngest children and I would return and live here in Duplin County in order to begin the healing process.”
Though Maier’s journey back to Duplin was filled with personal loss, including health struggles and the need to uproot her children, she found strength through her faith and family farm.
“We joined our Pathway Church family in 2012. I was blessed to serve here in teaching and the food pantry. My family farm was my healing sanctuary — I shared much grief with many turkeys while washing those waters and I took precious time away from my public career to help my girls finish high school and college,” Maier recalled. “Today, they are both teachers and also pouring into hearts and minds in Eastern North Carolina.”
Reflecting on her experiences, Maier acknowledges that this difficult period in her life prepared her to serve others with compassion and resilience, forming the foundation of her leadership approach.
“This time prepared me to understand a grieving and broken heart regardless of how a trauma occurs. So many are hurting around us and they need us to surround them in love and support,” said Maier.
For her, faith has been the cornerstone of both her personal and professional journey.

“I have witnessed God’s hand at work in my life many times,” she shared. She recounted an experience from college, when she survived an armed robbery while working weekends at a Speedy Mart. Years later, she endured 52 days in the Newborn Intensive Care Unit with her daughter, Avry.
“They had told us to plan a funeral, but I watched God gather a church together here in Duplin County, and they prayed. The pastors and a family friend drove 19 hours to Michigan and came into that NICU with an anointed prayer cloth. Within 24 hours, our girl began breathing on her own,” she recounted.
Later, another tragedy struck when her daughter Becky lost her right arm in an accident, yet faith continued to guide them. Today, Becky is a mother of three, mentoring at-risk youth with the same hope that sustained their family.
“God has worked here as well. He has placed me here at DCOM — I was broken and shattered at the hand and heart of someone who vowed to love me and respect me,” said Maier. “This new role for me is a great opportunity to be a servant leader and to relate with those who will have unexpected experiences like these.”
Maier said she is grateful to have the opportunity to support the needs in Duplin County. Her message to the community is a call to action; recognizing that DCOM cannot fulfill its mission alone, she invites the community to join hands in serving Duplin County.
Volunteers and donors are seen not just as supporters but as vital participants in God’s work. Every contribution — whether time, resources, or prayer — enables DCOM to continue being a place of refuge and transformation.
“If you have the desire, passion and availability to serve others, then we need you here with us,” said Maier, adding that any monetary gift to DCOM helps fill empty plates, keep lights on, provides clothes to families in crisis, supports those starting over and offers hope to those escaping abuse.
To contact the DCOM crisis center, call 910-285-6000 or visit duplinchristian.org for more information.